# Dropping naps: how to handle the 3-to-2 and 2-to-1 transitions

> A practice rule of thumb: many babies move from 3 naps to 2 around 6 to 8 months and from 2 to 1 around 14 to 18 months. Look for a pattern, not one bad day.

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A rule of thumb from practice is that many babies move from 3 naps to 2 at roughly 6 to 8 months, then from 2 naps to 1 at roughly 14 to 18 months. What signals it is a pattern rather than one bad day: for two weeks or longer, the last nap gets refused or pushes bedtime late. Transitions work best when they are gradual and timed to your child. 

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## What happens during a nap transition 

With age, children can handle longer stretches awake and need less sleep during the day. Eventually the day can no longer hold the number of naps it once did, and one nap has to be dropped. The weeks spent getting there are the transition, and they are naturally uneven: on some days your child needs the old number of naps, on others the new one. Total sleep over 24 hours still counts, so daytime sleep that goes missing must be recovered elsewhere, usually through an earlier bedtime, or it surfaces as a tougher night. 

## How to tell a true transition from a bad week  
- For a couple of weeks, the last nap is refused again and again or takes ages to happen. 
- Naps go fine, but bedtime keeps getting pushed late to make room for them. 
- Early morning waking shows up without any other change. 
- A single bad day, an illness or a trip does not count as a transition. 
 

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## Where transitions go wrong  
- **Dropping too soon.** A handful of refused naps near the first birthday can look like readiness for one nap. Frequently it is a passing regression. Losing a nap too early usually turns into weeks of night waking and early rising. 
- **Changing too suddenly.** A child switched from two naps to one overnight faces a long awake stretch they are not ready for, and the overtiredness leaks into the night. 
- **No buffer.** Transition days are uneven. If bedtime does not shift to match, a day of short naps turns into a bad night. 
- **The same plan for every child.** Some children get through a transition in a few days, while others need weeks. A generic schedule has no way of telling you which kind of child you have. 
 

## How Actually Sleeping guides nap transitions 

Naps are coached until they are solid, including through the weeks when the number of naps is changing. Dr. Sam builds the plan around your child’s age, current naps, night sleep, temperament and your family’s daily routine. The team checks in 1:1 with you every day and adjusts the schedule as the transition plays out, so you are never guessing from one bad day. Families talk about this stage in the [7–9 month video reviews](https://actuallysleeping.net/reviews/7-9-months/). 

If your child’s naps are coming apart, book the free consultation and have the transition planned around them. 

## More guides like this
- [3 month old sleep schedule: naps, wake windows and bedtime](https://actuallysleeping.net/guides/3-month-old-sleep-schedule/)
- [What sleep schedule works for a 2 year old?](https://actuallysleeping.net/guides/2-year-old-sleep-schedule/)
- [2 month old sleep schedule: what a good day and night look like](https://actuallysleeping.net/guides/2-month-old-sleep-schedule/)
- [Baby only napping 30 minutes? Why it happens and how to get longer naps](https://actuallysleeping.net/guides/short-naps-30-minutes/)
- [Sleep training with daycare: how to handle the naps](https://actuallysleeping.net/guides/daycare-naps-and-sleep-training/)
 

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## Common questions 

### My 12 month old won’t take the second nap. Should we switch to one nap?

Usually not yet. A rule of thumb from practice is that most toddlers keep needing two naps until sometime between 14 and 18 months, and a stretch of refusals near the first birthday is frequently a passing regression. A plan backed by daily check-ins can tell which it is. 

### How long should a single nap last?

That differs from child to child. The key is keeping total sleep within the AASM range of 11–14 hours per 24 hours at 1–2 years, naps included. Actually Sleeping coaches naps until they are solid, the single nap included. 

### At what age do toddlers give up naps completely?

Later than many parents assume, and it varies widely from child to child. A young toddler who skips naps for a few days is more likely going through a transition or a rough patch than done with naps for good. Actually Sleeping coaches naps until they are solid, through that stage as well.  

## References
1. [Paruthi S, et al. Recommended Amount of Sleep for Pediatric Populations: A Consensus Statement of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. J Clin Sleep Med. 2016 (full text).](https://depts.washington.edu/dbpeds/pediatricsleepdurationconsensus.pdf)
