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My baby will only sleep in the car seat, swing or stroller. Is that a problem?

Lots of babies nod off in these, but letting them stay asleep there isn’t safe. According to the AAP, sitting devices such as car seats, strollers, swings and infant carriers are not recommended for routine sleep, above all for babies under 4 months. When your baby drifts off in one, transfer them on their back to a firm, flat crib, bassinet or play yard at the earliest chance.

Guidance from the AAP and CPSC

Under the AAP’s 2022 recommendations, sitting devices (car seats, strollers, swings, infant carriers and slings) are not recommended for routine sleep, especially in babies younger than 4 months. The AAP’s parent site says that a baby who falls asleep in one should be moved, on their back, to a firm sleep surface as soon as possible.

The CPSC advises parents never to let a baby sleep in an inclined product angled more than 10 degrees, whether that is a rocker, bouncer, swing or glider, and to transfer a sleeping baby to a crib, bassinet or play yard. Between 2018 and 2020, its data recorded an average of 15 deaths a year linked to inclined infant products that weren’t meant for sleep.

Sleeping while the car is moving is a separate case

While the car is moving, a correctly installed car seat is exactly the right place for your baby, awake or asleep. The worry starts once the trip ends: the sleeping baby who stays buckled in the car seat on the floor, or gets carried indoors and set beside the sofa for a long nap. Once you arrive, lift your baby out and put them in their sleep space, even if that wakes them up.

When a baby will only sleep in motion, that’s a sleep problem with a solution, not a stubborn temperament. Actually Sleeping shifts sleep into the crib using a plan written for your baby, and we keep coaching naps until they are solid.

Slings and carriers

Wearing your baby is a wonderful way to calm fussiness. Even so, the AAP counts carriers and slings among the sitting devices not recommended for routine sleep. Its guidance if your baby dozes off in one matches every other sitting device: get them onto a firm, flat sleep surface, on their back, as soon as you’re able.

What makes these spots so sleepy

Movement, a snug hold, steady noise and an upright position are all soothing. On top of that, babies often happen to fall asleep in them at just the right time: the drive or walk coincides by chance with the end of a wake window. Meanwhile the crib is left with every hard moment, whether your baby is overtired or under-tired, so it starts to look like the culprit.

Gradually, motion becomes part of how your baby falls asleep. Each transfer to the crib wakes them because the conditions they drifted off in have shifted. Parents find themselves circling the block, walking the stroller up and down, or running the swing for every single nap, and the transfer fails about as often as it succeeds. By the time most families reach us, they’ve already tried things by themselves.

A plan works where a trick won’t

What lasts is a baby who falls asleep right in the crib, leaving nothing to transfer. The route there hinges on your baby’s age, how heavily they lean on motion today, their feeds and temperament, and how many naps currently happen on the go. That’s why a plan built for one baby succeeds where one-size-fits-all advice gets stuck.

Actually Sleeping coaches naps until they’re solid, not only nights. Dr. Sam writes your baby’s plan, we coach you bootcamp-style before the first night, and daily 1:1 check-ins fine-tune the nap schedule as your baby learns. Parents talk about the change in reviews from families of 4 to 6 month olds.

We guarantee that your baby will sleep 8–12 hours through the night within 14 days of consistent, correct implementation of your sleep plan. If that doesn’t happen, you receive a full refund.

If you’re worn out because every nap hinges on motion, book a free consultation.

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Common questions

Is a car seat nap okay as long as I’m watching?

The AAP doesn’t recommend sitting devices for routine sleep, particularly under 4 months, and keeping an eye on your baby doesn’t make that position any safer. After you’re out of the car, move your baby to a crib, bassinet or play yard.

What if the swing reclines completely flat?

A swing isn’t a sleep product. The CPSC advises against letting a baby sleep in a swing or any other inclined product, and says to move a sleeping baby to a crib, bassinet or play yard.

Every transfer wakes my baby. What can I do?

Most failed transfers happen because your baby drifted off in one place and wakes up somewhere else. What lasts is a baby who falls asleep in the crib itself, which removes the transfer entirely. Building that skill is the first thing an Actually Sleeping plan does.

References

  1. American Academy of Pediatrics. AAP Updates Safe Sleep Recommendations: Back is Best. News release, 2022.
  2. HealthyChildren.org (AAP). Safe Sleep: Back is Best; Avoid Soft Bedding, Inclined Surfaces and Bed-Sharing. 2022.
  3. HealthyChildren.org (AAP). A Parent's Guide to Safe Sleep.
  4. Safe to Sleep campaign, NICHD (NIH). Ways to Reduce Baby's Risk.
  5. U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission. CPSC Urges Parents and Caregivers to Check Baby's Sleep Space During Baby Safety Month. 2023.